In my book THE LION OF JUDAH, the heroine gives up on romantic relationships because of a tragic experience in her past.  It’s easy to give up and throw in the towel on so many things,  but I think love is like a butterfly–as long as you chase it, you’ll never catch it.   If you want to be in a loving relationship focus on becoming your best self, and stop chasing butterflies.  One day, love like a butterfly, will land on your shoulder when you least expect it.